Category: Mindset & Training

  • Part II – How to Make Movement Instinctive

    Part II – How to Make Movement Instinctive

    “Practice doesn’t make perfect. Perfect practice makes permanent. But even that’s not enough.”


    Technical Skill Isn’t the Finish Line

    You can drill perfect footwork. You can execute crisp angles.
    But if you have to think about it in the moment… it’s not instinctive.

    So the real question becomes:

    How do you make your movement automatic—when it actually matters?


    The Answer: Stress-Accessed Training

    Instinct is built by repeatedly accessing skills under pressure.

    That doesn’t mean throwing yourself into chaotic sparring right away.
    In fact, that usually just causes people to fall back on the simplest habits:
    forward/backward footwork, basic blocks, and canned responses.

    Instead, you need graduated stress.


    Where to Start

    Stress doesn’t have to mean pain or panic.
    It can be as simple as:

    • Demonstrating a skill in front of others
    • Teaching someone else
    • Being put on the spot for recall

    Start there. Then, begin layering speed and intensity.

    ⚠️ Important: You’ll hit a limit where form starts breaking down.
    When that happens, don’t push faster—hold the speed and clean up your execution.


    Reaction Chains

    Basic partner drills often use single-response patterns:
    Attack A → Defense A. Over and over.

    That’s fine—for a start. But real pressure demands decision-making.

    Enter: the Reaction Chain.

    • Start with a small set of possible attacks (e.g., #1 or #4)
    • Feeder chooses one randomly
    • Defender responds accordingly

    From there, you can expand in two directions:

    • Wider chains: Add more possible attacks
    • Deeper chains: Add follow-up moves (e.g., disarm → close → grapple → takedown)

    This isn’t free-for-all sparring—it’s controlled chaos with a purpose.


    Reduced-Speed Sparring

    Want to build recognition and timing without panic?

    Try sparring at 50% speed.

    • Anything goes—attacks, counters, movement
    • But both parties move at a consistent, slower pace
    • This lets your brain process in real-time and build pattern recognition

    Reduced-Scope Sparring

    This blends control and chaos.

    • Limit the moves (e.g., only #1, #2, #5 attacks and basic footwork)
    • But allow free interaction: no set order or response

    It’s like playing chess with only half the pieces—great for targeted growth.


    Do You Need All These Modes?

    No. Not for every skill.

    • Complex combos: You might start mid-way through the process
    • Fundamentals (like footwork): Need to be integrated into everything
      • Movement
      • Sparring
      • Flow drills
      • Reaction chains

    These are your foundation. If they’re not instinctive, nothing else will be.


    Final Thought: Stress Reveals What You Own

    Drills make you competent.
    Pressure shows you what stuck.

    Train in a way that your movement shows up when you need it—without thought, without delay, without compromise.

    That’s instinct.

  • How to Start Training (Even if You’re Out of Shape, Busy, or Over 40)

    How to Start Training (Even if You’re Out of Shape, Busy, or Over 40)

    You’re Not Too Late, and You’re Not Alone

    If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve been thinking about starting martial arts or some kind of self-defense training—but something’s held you back. Maybe you think you’re too out of shape. Maybe your schedule is overloaded. Or maybe you’ve hit your 40s and you’re wondering if your body can keep up.

    Good news: You can start training, and you should. Your future self will thank you.


    Myth: “I Need to Get in Shape Before I Train”

    One of the biggest mental traps is thinking you have to already be fit to start training. That’s like saying you need to know how to play guitar before taking music lessons. Martial arts is the training.

    Start where you are. The best programs will meet you there.

    When I started training, I was pre-hypertensive!


    Tip #1: Choose a System That Values Longevity

    Not every martial arts system is built with older beginners in mind. Look for schools that:

    • Emphasize proper technique over raw athleticism
    • Scale training intensity to the individual
    • Prioritize injury prevention and mobility

    Systems like Filipino Martial Arts (FMA), which emphasize leverage, timing, and coordination over brute strength, are a great place to start.


    Tip #2: Time Management = Priority Management

    Think you don’t have time? Start small:

    • 10 minutes of solo practice at home
    • 1 class per week to build the habit
    • Walking or stretching during work breaks

    You don’t need hours a day. You need consistency.


    Tip #3: Train Smart, Not Just Hard

    Especially after 40, your body’s recovery is as important as your workout. Some key tips:

    • Warm up before and cool down after every session
    • Focus on quality reps, not just reps
    • Listen to your body—tweaks become injuries if ignored

    Tip #4: Mindset Is Your Best Asset

    You bring something younger athletes often don’t: life experience. You know how to commit. You’ve overcome harder things. Use that.

    Training in your 40s and beyond is less about competition and more about capability—building a body and mind that can move, defend, and thrive.


    Getting Started: A Simple Plan

    1. Find a beginner-friendly school – Look for instructors who care about your goals, not just their own style.
    2. Start with one class per week – Build the habit before worrying about more.
    3. Practice at home – Basic drills, footwork, and mobility go a long way.
    4. Track your wins – Each session is progress, not perfection.

    Closing Thought:

    You’re not too late. You’re not too broken. You’re not too busy.

    You’re just getting started.