Tag: martial arts for adults

  • What Are Martial Arts?

    What Are Martial Arts?

    I’ve been turning over a simple question lately: What exactly are martial arts?

    Yes, there’s the literal definition—“arts of war”—but that doesn’t really tell you much. It’s like saying a guitar is “a stringed instrument.” Cool. Now what?

    So let’s go a step deeper.

    There’s the classic question we ask students: Why do you train?

    I’ve written before about big-picture reasons—to protect yourself, build confidence, manage stress, improve discipline. But beyond the why, we should also ask:

    What are we actually doing when we train?


    A Broad Set of Mission-Specific Skills

    When I think about this, I find myself borrowing ideas from the military—via friends, family, books like Expeditionary Force, and podcasts like Kinda Consensual (yes, I listen to too many of those… and yes, I’m a cliché: middle-aged dude, loves military sci-fi, owns multiple water bottles).

    Here’s where I landed:

    Martial arts are the skills required to accomplish objectives under stress.

    That’s it.

    In a military context, that might mean operating a rifle while under fire or landing a $70-million jet on a floating runway in hurricane conditions.

    Those abilities aren’t magic. They’re trained step-by-step, drilled over and over (and over and over), and maintained relentlessly. Pilots must fly a certain number of hours to stay certified. Infantry have to requalify with their rifles.

    It’s not about knowledge. It’s about capability under pressure.


    The “Non-War” Martial Arts

    So what about us—those of us not deploying to war zones?

    In the dojo, we’re not practicing to storm beaches. But the structure is surprisingly similar.

    We spend hours repeating techniques, honing patterns, training reactions until they’re automatic. Not because we want to be robots, but because instinct beats intention when things get real.

    Training stress helps prepare us for life stress. We learn to recognize danger, regulate emotions, and function under pressure.

    And if you’re like me—middle-aged, desk-bound, and slowly turning into a sentient loaf of sourdough—it helps you get your health back on track too.


    The Crushing Absence of Novelty

    There’s a reason Bruce Lee’s quote shows up on every dojo wall:

    “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 techniques once, but the man who has practiced one technique 10,000 times.”

    Most people come into martial arts looking for an experience—and hey, that’s fine! It’s exciting, it’s cinematic, it’s cool.

    But the real power of martial arts isn’t in collecting techniques. It’s in transforming behavior.

    That transformation comes from repetition. Endless, boring, frustrating, rewarding repetition.

    It’s not glamorous. But it’s effective. And when the pressure’s on, it’s the boring stuff that shows up and saves your ass.


    Final Thoughts

    So what are martial arts?

    They’re not just fighting styles. They’re structured ways to build functional skills under stress—whether that’s in combat, competition, or just dealing with a bad day without flipping a table.

    And if all else fails, at least you’ll look cool doing pushups.

  • How to Start Training (Even if You’re Out of Shape, Busy, or Over 40)

    How to Start Training (Even if You’re Out of Shape, Busy, or Over 40)

    You’re Not Too Late, and You’re Not Alone

    If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve been thinking about starting martial arts or some kind of self-defense training—but something’s held you back. Maybe you think you’re too out of shape. Maybe your schedule is overloaded. Or maybe you’ve hit your 40s and you’re wondering if your body can keep up.

    Good news: You can start training, and you should. Your future self will thank you.


    Myth: “I Need to Get in Shape Before I Train”

    One of the biggest mental traps is thinking you have to already be fit to start training. That’s like saying you need to know how to play guitar before taking music lessons. Martial arts is the training.

    Start where you are. The best programs will meet you there.

    When I started training, I was pre-hypertensive!


    Tip #1: Choose a System That Values Longevity

    Not every martial arts system is built with older beginners in mind. Look for schools that:

    • Emphasize proper technique over raw athleticism
    • Scale training intensity to the individual
    • Prioritize injury prevention and mobility

    Systems like Filipino Martial Arts (FMA), which emphasize leverage, timing, and coordination over brute strength, are a great place to start.


    Tip #2: Time Management = Priority Management

    Think you don’t have time? Start small:

    • 10 minutes of solo practice at home
    • 1 class per week to build the habit
    • Walking or stretching during work breaks

    You don’t need hours a day. You need consistency.


    Tip #3: Train Smart, Not Just Hard

    Especially after 40, your body’s recovery is as important as your workout. Some key tips:

    • Warm up before and cool down after every session
    • Focus on quality reps, not just reps
    • Listen to your body—tweaks become injuries if ignored

    Tip #4: Mindset Is Your Best Asset

    You bring something younger athletes often don’t: life experience. You know how to commit. You’ve overcome harder things. Use that.

    Training in your 40s and beyond is less about competition and more about capability—building a body and mind that can move, defend, and thrive.


    Getting Started: A Simple Plan

    1. Find a beginner-friendly school – Look for instructors who care about your goals, not just their own style.
    2. Start with one class per week – Build the habit before worrying about more.
    3. Practice at home – Basic drills, footwork, and mobility go a long way.
    4. Track your wins – Each session is progress, not perfection.

    Closing Thought:

    You’re not too late. You’re not too broken. You’re not too busy.

    You’re just getting started.